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  • Elites

I like distance. After a few failed attempts at shaking it up with people I’ve learned that space creates better bonds and would most likely never do that again. Once i let my guard down they got obsessive, controlling and sloppy. So I am more than okay with long distance as in living a bit away, preferably within an hours drive and also emotionally. I actually recommend it. If you’re worried about what the other person may be doing when you’re not around then you shouldn’t be with someone if you can’t trust them or don’t feel secure enough in the relationship.

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Never been in a long distance relationship but would definitely be open to it knowing that I can trust the person and that I actually see a future with them 

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It's never worked for me. The g*rls always quit talking to me after a few days.  

However local relationships have worked amazingly well for me. I think it's easier to see someone down the street then it is to see someone who lives 3 states over from yours. 

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I couldn't do it personally. For me the most important parts of dating are spending time together, feeling each others energy, being able to be intimate. If I can't do that I wouldn't feel connected enough to that person to date them. There's a girl I really like right now who I've gone on a few dates with, we're really into each other, but she is in LA and I currently am not- I'm not even attempting to continue dating until I'm back in town, because I don't get anything out of it if I can't be with her irl

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I think it depends but in my experience My closest connections have been with people who were long distance. It can get hard but for me it’s doable. Video call with partner and start movie at the same time? Fun date. As I said in my post about love language- I am all about physical touch so for me that’s the biggest struggle. But it does make it that much more amazing when you do get to see them. I think for me it puts less pressure and less opportunity for codependency. But I don’t know if I would want to be in a long distance relationship if they didn’t want to figure out being together physically at all. At a certain point in a long distance relationship I may need to end the relationship if there is no sight in the future of seeing each other more frequently. 

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