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In my life... if I had to pick one thing I've learned...

I learned that you should never play hero.

If someone says they need help, tell them to call the people whose job it is to help.

Save yourself. Misery doesn't truly want help, it wants company.

Now here's a song to save you from how messed up the post I just made is:

 

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I've learned to not talk s***t or rant to people about another person, because most of the time it isn't worth it and it will come back to bite you in the end. And a very important lesson I've learned about people; the way they talk about others will reflect how they talk about you when you're not there. I'm still young though so I have a bunch more lessons to learn 💀

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That I shouldn't talk such a big game in online games and act like i'm 100% better than I am. Gets me into situations where the pressure to perform makes it where I can't even perform at 10% of my skill much less 10% of the skill i said i have. Could apply to real life too tbh.

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53 minutes ago, Danny said:

Hmm

Ron Burgundy What GIF

17 minutes ago, cyberneticembrace said:

That I shouldn't talk such a big game in online games and act like i'm 100% better than I am. Gets me into situations where the pressure to perform makes it where I can't even perform at 10% of my skill much less 10% of the skill i said i have. Could apply to real life too tbh.

I like playing people who are mediocre.

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1 minute ago, Onision said:

Ron Burgundy What GIF

I like playing people who are mediocre.

I wish more people were like you. ESO community is so insular. Especially at high end. You're expected to weave to do optimum DPS and if you don't, welp. You better hope you're a healer!

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3 minutes ago, cyberneticembrace said:

I wish more people were like you. ESO community is so insular. Especially at high end. You're expected to weave to do optimum DPS and if you don't, welp. You better hope you're a healer!

People who are just OK at video games are often people with normal lives.

To get REALLY good you gotta obsess (in most cases) ~

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Cutting off people close to me that were hurting me/toxic... just walking away... even though it's healthy... I just feel like it hurt me more than it hurt them.

 

Just now, brittniisundae said:

scissors GIF

Cutting off people close to me that were hurting me/toxic... just walking away... even though it's healthy... I just feel like it hurt me more than it hurt them.

 

But did I learn, grow, and still continue to? Yes. ❤

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39 minutes ago, Sheila said:

Always be proud of yourself, even for little accomplishments you've done. 

 Smaaall accomplishments, I need to use them for setting realistic goals, and feeling proud, and keeping going.

Life still happens, we just learn to see it with a different perspective. 

As Onision has said, in my case, not thinking "ohh X deserves helps, he/she is sick , cannot do things better. 

Know you have a certain amount of will power,  not unlimited energy, and If you are wasting it in the wrong people at the end, you will not help them but, you will end up getting d*****d into their sickness. They completely drained you.

Also, you don´t need to be a 10/10 to deserve happines, it comes in within. 

Chillin is underrated.

And my fav realization about love, that I had this early 2021 with an unbelievable thing.

Love happens, you don´t earn it , it just happens

I like Rainbow a lot, there is so much power in each song, hehehe this one is "Can´t let you go" .

The main singer has a voice range incredible. I cry when hearing this particular range voices,

 

I love nice guitar rifts combined with a fresh lyrics, Scorpions have a special place in my heart. I started listening to this group when I started confronting things. And when I first fell in love.

If you feel more emo, there is also a song that got really popular in Spain, english lyrics, but spanish group.

 

 

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1 hour ago, brittniisundae said:

scissors GIF

Cutting off people close to me that were hurting me/toxic... just walking away... even though it's healthy... I just feel like it hurt me more than it hurt them.

 

But did I learn, grow, and still continue to? Yes. ❤

Also call me sappy, but this is why I love these movies. I struggle mentally, and have my own personal needs for motivation, guidance, to be stronger in life with the decisions I have to make. 🌟

 

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Don't be friends with people that use me. I really let people use me alot. I do more for other then for my self. 

Like I give someone else food. Evem if it was last food I had I can live without it for day or 2 and know I can count to my brother. 

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I think I should be learning that same lesson.🤔

I feel best when I know I’ve been helpful in som*thing, but it feeds into becoming useless to myself when it comes down to it.

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“If you want to know who someone is look at their friend group”

I used to laugh at that but it’s so so true. I hung around not the greatest people bc I saw the good in them but it got me in situations and directed my life in a way I would not have chosen for myself. I guess I did choose to befriend them. I just think how I wanted so much for myself but felt that I had to settle and be a certain way bc we all came from s***t homes and only had each other. No one cared about us and we didn’t expect to live pass 18 by living fast and d***g young, so why even care.

 

I guess another lesson is don’t give up before the race has even begun. 
 

Don’t let your past define how your future will be.

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I've learned that it's hard to trust people. I cant make friends at work. Most of my coworkers are there for their own self gain. Some in the past habe tried to get me fired. Not a good feeling.

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I learned to not tell a lot of personal things about myself to the wrong person because they used What you told them against you and throw it in your face.

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