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SailorVenus

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  1. I'm so sorry for what you're going through, it really does flip your world upside down. I am learning and going through it myself as I lost my sister in June, and just like your friend it was very unexpected, one day she was here and the next day she was gone. It really is just time, although I think everyone hates to hear it because waiting for time to pass is agony. Everyday it gets a little bit easier, but I am still waiting for full acceptance, sometimes in the corner of my eye I will think that I see her and when I turn around to look at her it's someone else, or I have dreams about her and when I wake up I remember that she's gone. What really comforted me was the next day after she died I went over to her house to pick up some paperwork. I saw this cat with black fur and green eyes, The same colour as my sister's hair and eyes! I smiled at the cat and it meowed and smiled back at me. As I walked passed, it kept meowing at me so I stopped. It walked over to me and let me pet it, it kept jumping up at me and meowing like it wanted to be cuddled. My mum said as well the morning after my sister died there was a black crow that kept trying to fly directly at my mum. We always say now that whenever we see an animal with black fur/feathers that it's her. Please make sure you take good care of your health, and make sure you have someone to talk to. I wouldn't have been able to have gotten through it without the support I received from friends and family. If you need someone to talk to , I'll be here.
  2. Anyone else been discovering new music through tiktok? ~(ห˜โ–พห˜~)
  3. A good sense of style , charisma and can make me laugh
  4. I got banned on askwomen subreddit because I said "Asian don't raisin."
  5. I feel like everyone is like this right? but I've definitely learned to tone it down. Probably Kingdom hearts or final fantasy games . My friend has gotten into the K-pop group black pink and it's all he ever talks about . "Rosรฉ did this today! Jisoo is this of the group, I'm gonna find Lisa and marry her, watch this video of Jenny singing." It's sweet that he shares what he loves with me but It definitely taught me to calm down a bit ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
  6. I totally understand. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป The forum updates have been great btw. It's really well formatted.
  7. My sister thought America was a part of Europe, she's a fully grown adult .
  8. Would it be possible to get verified by snapping ID blurring all the other details but date of birth and sending it to you somehow? You could put adult themed content in another group that is locked unless you've been verified. I have no idea what it takes to run a forum so fair enough if that idea is not possible whatsoever. And considering everything you've been through, I completely understand if you don't even want to entertain that idea.
  9. Dio was truly a gift we didn't know we needed on this earth
  10. I forgot to mention this video of Dwayne Johnson talking about his depression really helped me as well. There is som*thing very soothing about him . Sometimes when I'm down I go back to this video to the part where he says " hey, it's gonna be ok." It's like a virtual hug.
  11. When I was like 5 or 6 years old I came home, took my finding Nemo trainers half off then I tried to just sort of flick them off, one of the trainer's actually hit my mum in the face. It was a complete accident. I think that was the only time I ever ran away from my mum crying and screaming because I was legitimately scared of her. I remember her shaking me and screaming at me "WHY ARE YOU CRYING?!?!" "WHY ARE YOU CRYING?!?!" "WHY ARE YOU CRYING?!?!" Then my older brother just popped his head in said " because you're screaming and shouting in her face." But yeah , I don't think my mum has ever said anything mean per say that I can remember but it was more of the stuff she didn't do or say. She was very emotionally unavailable. In my entire life I don't think she's ever told me she loves me.
  12. I think in terms of coping with it you also have to learn to be kind to yourself, I think many people struggle with that when it comes to their own internal issues . I like to think of it like this though.. If a friend Fu*ked up on the same thing you did would you give them a hard time, would you tell them that they're useless? Unless you're an assho*e you wouldn't right? So why are we so hard on ourselves? This tiktok really opened my eyes
  13. Borderline personality disorder. I'm happy to say I somewhat have it under control. Like I used to be a hyper***ual maniac chasing for anyone to love me, I knew there was something wrong with me after my breakup with my first boyfriend, I'm glad I got the opportunity to apologise for all the **** I put him through. I really did go off the rails. I really had to work on impulse issues, I never feel anger anymore. But now in the sense of keeping it together I'm about as emotionally strong as wet paper, shout at me and I'm going to start crying.
  14. Here's the link to the article with the end picture where they compiled everything https://www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/celebrity-news/is-a-woman-s-idea-of-the-perfect-body-really-that-much-different-than-a-man-s-81453 I definitely prefer the women's choices on both the ideal woman and man. Did you prefer the men's choices or the women's?
  15. In the UK, Joey E s s e x basically built his brand on being stupid...Genius.
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