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  1. I did a lot... but I don't want to share any of it.
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  3. From the latest season of American Horror Story lol
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  4. It is split off from 3 books I think one of them has at least 500 pages. I never had the chance to watch the original or read the books, but geez. I was hoping it would pick up. It sort of stayed at the same pace.
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  5. I can grow a beard. Itchy, do not like.
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  6. Like the topic says. Do you get facial hair?
    1 point
  7. I really have no idea what I'd do. I used to love flirting, but now it feels wrong. When people ask "So why don't you have a boyfriend then?" I feel so awkward too, like what am I meant to say? "I do have a boyfriend, but he's dead." I don't f***ing know. I miss affection and I miss good morning/goodnight texts, someone to share my day with, cook with, binge a Netflix series with in one night, silly things I know. But, can I ever have that again without feeling guilty? I do not know.
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  8. It's my Auntie's birthday November the first, so we usually have a Halloween themed party the day before. I'll be wearing my usual unimaginative costume of 'Miss Living Dead' 🤣. I'm a little excited to see this haha.
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  10. I'll be at my job on Halloween night, but my family is cooking dinner to celebrate my sister's birthday. Her birthday isn't on Halloween. We're just celebrating it on Sunday because we won't be able to celebrate it together on her actual birthday. So yeah, those are my "Halloween" plans lol
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  11. Christina Aguilera.
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  12. Let my intentions be clear I’m not for relationships right now but if you want to exchange socials and have a good evening as friends I’m all for it!
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  13. What is said out of frustration is usually how they actually feel without the fear of repercussions at the time Once things simmer down and reality catches up with their emotions they backtrack saying I didn’t mean that lol Let’s have a go at whatever is bothering you without all the theatrics ok? * pat pat * When I get upset myself usually I just say give me my space or silence to figure it out or let’s take turns talking strategy Not take the time to belittle whoever is around like an emotional punching bag ouch
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  14. It's only been 5 months since my boyfriend d ied and I feel like people think I should be over it already. I am trying my best but some people tell me to 'stop living in the past', it's like they don't understand that my whole future has changed now too.
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  15. Ugh, I can’t get away from Archer. Probably would’ve been easily baited by this one too.
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  16. If they wanted to play them... I think Hide-N-Go Seek would be incredible.
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  17. Um... let me think here...
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  18. That happened anyway when I worked at Wal-Mart. Hot g*rls need jobs too lol. Yes, I flirted back with them. But I never went out with them or took one girl up on her offer being as I was married back then. Tempted sure, but I wasn't a cheater. I knew I was already playing with fire by flirting but that's as far as I went. Touching, kissing, & it leading to the bedroom is crossing the line. It wasn't something I was willing to do at the time.
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  19. I would be surprised that would even be happening and confused because no hot guy has ever flirted with me lol. Not really sure what I would do tbh. I guess I would just go along with it and be myself.
    1 point
  20. OKAY I BUY A LOT OF STUFFED ANIMALS
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  21. The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. The trilogy.
    1 point
  22. I wrote this in another thread, but I still think it applies: This is a topic I know all too well about. Grieving, at least - the story of the death of my mother - My mother had alcoholic-cirrhosis of the liver and her liver was practically dead so she was eligible to be put to the top of the list to get a transplant. We had a post-operative plan in place, and I was her primary caretaker and health contact. She wasn’t supposed to di'e. The disgusting hospital she was transferred to (apparently has the best liver team in NJ) gave her an infection from the food they fed her. Since no liver function, your kidneys go. She would be on dialysis for 72 hours at a time and it was not ridding the infection. She was in the ICU for a month before passing. She ended up bleeding internally overnight and I received a phone call asking if I should intubate her or let her pass peacefully. I was only 23 years old and knew nothing of this. I couldn’t believe there was nothing more they could do - I had to make the decision because she had no living will and I was the only one she listed to make decisions like that on her behalf. I went to the hospital right away and they told me she most likely would not survive the intubation and they recommend letting her pass in peace. I was frantic, I couldn’t believe they couldn’t do more. I was her everything. And she was mine. It hurt the most when the cirrhosis took over her brain function (similar to dementia) and she would only speak French to me or consider me a nurse, not her daughter Bonnie. It took about 9 hours after they pulled the plugs for her to pass peacefully with her in my arms. The next round of grief I had to deal with was my ex-fiancé. We dated for four years, we lived in two apartments together, and he was the first person I moved out with so essentially I felt that I grew up with him. I thought he was my soulmate. We had a 'rule' that we would never go to bars without each other. We had a t*rrible fight the night before where he made me feel really small and was extremely insulting. I went out with my coworkers after work (I work with all men) and when I got home to our apartment there was a suitcase at the door. He immediately told me that I had to leave the apartment and that we were over. We were supposed to be getting married. We stayed civil, and the best of friends for the remaining 10 months after we broke up. He was my go-to for advice when it came to new people, but it always bothered me that no matter how much I begged, no matter how much I promised things would change, I even offered to leave the job that I love so much. He never gave in. He never even admitted to me that he missed me. He never said anything after we broke up- almost like he was over it so quickly. It broke me. I TRIED to date other people, see other people, but they weren't Alex. And they never would be in my mind. I was seeing our relationship as the truest and most healthy one I've ever had, but I was neglecting to see all the red flags as well. Yes, losing someone you love (not by death) is THE EXACT SAME THING. And I have lost two very important people to both. I still grieve the relationship and love I had with Alex, I still wonder what he does per day, I still wonder if he is talking to another girl, I still wonder. Sure, I try and distract myself with self-love or even making new friends and acquaintances but. I can't stop comparing. Now, how to deal with this? Find a support group, a confidant, someone you can vent to without any judgement or comments like ‘get over it already, it’s been x amount of time’, or ‘don’t worry, we all go someday. it was their time’. Actually, no it wasn’t. The only thing that helps me is when I am in conversation with anybody, I speak about my mother daily almost as if she is alive. It makes people feel more comfortable bringing her up to me. And it makes them feel less awkward. Talk about them. Don’t erase them. Become their legacy, keep their name ALIVE. As for grief, it will always remain. But it does get easier to cope. If I even read about my mom or go on her Facebook I cry. It’s okay. Don’t let others make you believe you should be over it. If you need anything, I am here. Especially you, @brittniisundae 💘
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  23. A chinchilla for the wonderful @Kaitlind I'm so very happy you're here. & Thankful we've made such an awesome connection. Hugs and much love all day! ❤
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  25. Ah yes, a must! & now I must 💕
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  26. You had me at "bones just quoted me" 🤣❤🥰🌹
    1 point
  27. Just been watching tv and YouTube videos. I also had to go to the store to get a few things. I didn't feel like going but made myself lol. Then took a shower, made dinner, and now I'm about to watch more YouTube videos 😋
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  28. Got up. Showered. Put on clothes. Went to Starbucks. Went to work. Went tanning. Went back to work. Did work. Wrote on the forum. Left work. Smoked a cigarette (I don’t smoke, I’m stressed okay). Gave my friend a ride 40 minutes away. Came home. Now standing in my kitchen. Wow, the alluring life I live.
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  29. You… are one of a kind 🤣 marry me woman.
    1 point
  30. No, I'll pass. Crushes fade. Plus there would probably be like this weird clause where they all could see as well, and who knows how people would react, because I mean we've all had multiple crushes throughout time. What if people become angry over the words "I used to"? 🤔 Sorry, I've been watching too many horror movies recently. 😂 Oh, hey. Story idea! 💕
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  31. Hmm. I think I'll take the cool stuff. It's a hard one though as I love all the random things in my home, but some days I feel suffocated by them and want a minimalistic home, but then other days I would hate it if they weren't there 😅 but, if you mean like..cool gadgets then yeah that would be pretty awesome. That was a long answer to a simple question. 🙃 Would you rather have all the bad memories from your life erased from your memories and possibly be a totally different person because of it, or keep them and stay as you are?
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  32. False Positive - on Hulu. Very disturbing to say the least. I wouldn't say it was GREAT.. but uh, check it out.
    1 point
  33. Oh, and love, happiness, and affection. And an emotionally available human.
    1 point
  34. Taking a trip with someone to see pretty scenery. 💕
    1 point
  35. Man's search for meaning by Viktor Frankl..1946...
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